I’m Having Surgery Next Week

Apr 30th, 2010 Written By Cheryl Smith

Just a quick note to let you know the result of childbirth and the realities of gravity have converged to make sneezing and laughter a little embarrassing on occasion, and physical activity significantly limited for far too long. So, I’ve decided to have a bladder repair/bladder sling done. I’m scheduled to have surgery on Monday, 5/3.

The surgery will be performed by two different doctors. Evidently my urologist doesn’t tack bladders and my gynecologist doesn’t do slings. Altogether, I should be under the knife for a couple of hours or less and will be in the hospital for about 24 hours. For the next 6-8 weeks I’ll be on pretty restrictive recovery, meaning no housework, etc. (It’s not all bad, at least for me.) Peter and the kids will be in need of prayer. :) I won’t be able to lift more than 10 lbs for 3 months. The real kicker is not being able to walk Archie, our 106 lb. golden retriever!

But, all that said, things are good and the surgery, while necessary, isn’t life threatening, and I realize how very blessed I am. Just wanted you to know so you could be praying. And if I’m silent here over the next few weeks, you’ll understand.

I suspect I’ll have some “forced abiding,” as my friend John Chandler put it.

When have you experienced forced abiding? Has anyone else considered this surgery? And if you’ve had the surgery, what tips would you offer me? Our family?

juliestilesmills

I can't believe I didn't remember this until I read you post today, but exactly one year TODAY, I had a looonnnng overdue hysterectomy after struggling with two decades of fibroid tumors and about 18 months of chronic anemia. Without a doubt, the recovery was the biggest deterrent, but my husband made a comment that finally moved me to take action:

“If it was over you'd have done it already.”

A year later, I'm SO glad I finally did what needed to be done. I feel GREAT. SO much energy, no physical limitations or discomfort or pain. Three months will be over before you know it. I put you on my prayer list.

http://www.culturesmithconsulting.com/news cherylsmith

Oh, Julie – thanks so much. In fact, Peter was a huge part of my
decision, asking, “why would you put up with that for so long?” and he
was right. Here's to 3 months (and sooner)!

juliesummerlin

Cheryl, The only advice I can give is to make sure you take the 3 months to re-coup! Two years ago after much procrastination I had a hysterectomy and bladder repair. I did not really follow the Doctors advice and was on my feet much too soon. Unfortunately, I could probably have another repair! I will pray for you and your family!

http://www.culturesmithconsulting.com/news cherylsmith

Thanks Julie. The doctor did mention that if I do more than I should, I could run the risk of damaging the sling and therefore, needing the surgery again. THAT doesn't sound like a fun option to me.

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